George Washington, the Cherry tree, and American Values

By: Mary Helen Spears of Garrett County

As children we all heard the familiar story of our first president and the cutting down of the cherry tree. The story taught children to admire those who tell the truth and to grow up as truth-tellers themselves. Sure, when we grew a bit older we learned that this incident probably never happened.  But the point was clear. Our first president deserved admiration for his integrity and honesty. And telling the truth is essential, no matter the personal consequences. Presidents’ Day also honors our 16th president, “Honest Abe,” whose personal narrative exemplifies honor and integrity.  No, we are not a perfect people, and some of us sometimes have told lies. But, in our past, we have aimed for truthfulness, holding it up as a model for all in our society.

Regrettably, American society’s fundamental belief in the value of truthfulness has suffered a major assault. We had a president who lied continually, supported by millions of Americans who knew these were lies but believed his lying was acceptable or who, incredulously, believed his lies. Recently many are calling the refusal to accept the results of the 2020 election the “Big Lie”. The “Big Lie” has been disastrous for belief in our democracy and a danger to our country. But let us take it a step further. If it is acceptable for a president, isn’t it OK for everyone? It used to be shameful if you lied. Now it’s fine as long as lying leads to what you want. We have seen many lies coming from national politicians and their spokespersons these last months.

Habitual lying has the potential to destroy our society. Should we trust neighbors, family and acquaintances that excuse or are amused by politicians’ lies? How about a contractor we might hire? A businessman we might be working with? A police officer that testifies against a defendant? The list goes on. When our children know that adults excuse a former president’s lies, can we blame them for stretching the truth? We all know that when someone has lied to us we can no longer trust them. Translate this to an entire society. Why should any of us trust those who say lying is OK? How will our society function? As we recognize two of our Presidents on Presidents’ Day, I hope we reflect on some of the characteristics of Washington and Lincoln that we used to value. I believe that Democrats value truthfulness and I hope aiming for the truth has not died in America.

I hope our society can withstand this assault on both our democracy and society.